Why do we crave validation?
Because we were raised on praise.
Because doubt shouts louder than truth.
Because rejection stings like failure.
But here’s the reminder:
Validation is not a permission slip.
You’re allowed to believe in yourself without applause.
Waiting for approval only delays action.
Start now. Start messy. Start anyway.
Validate yourself — that’s the only kind that sticks.
Note to self:
You don’t need to be chosen to choose yourself.