Speak your mind
Strange Human Habits We Never Question We all have them — those tiny habits that make absolutely no sense, yet somehow feel completely normal. Have you ever caught yourself re-reading a message you just sent, as if the words might magically rearrange themselves? Or maybe you’ve opened the fridge for the fifth time in ten …
We all have different belief systems, and honestly, whether I believe in a particular faith or not, I respect the beliefs and opinions of others. This incident goes back to the early 2000s. Among my close circle of family and friends, some were devoted followers of various spiritual gurus, while others were staunch devotees of …
A few days ago, while waiting at a traffic signal, I noticed a group of blind men and women crossing the road on the opposite side. They moved with confidence, guided by a sighted woman who held their white canes and led them safely through the traffic. As I watched them, a thought crossed my …
Have you ever found yourself in a situation where your thoughts start racing ahead of you? You think deeply, overthink, worry, and stress about something that hasn’t even happened yet—but you feel convinced that it might. Take a simple example. You email a presentation to your manager and, almost immediately, your mind begins its work. …
Have you ever casually flipped through the matrimonial columns in a newspaper? “Fair, slim, beautiful bride wanted.” “Well-settled, tall, handsome groom from a reputed family.” “Professionally qualified, homely, traditional yet modern…”—it often feels less like searching for a life partner and more like placing an order for a perfectly customized product. You almost expect a …
Marriages, Matrimonials and the Myth of Perfection Read More »
Nostalgia… I’m sure we all feel it. Those good old days—just a thought can make us feel like we’ve time-travelled for a few seconds, wrapped in sweet memories. Last Sunday, I visited the college where I did my PUC (11th and 12th) to attend a program in which my mother was participating in a fashion …
When Nostalgia Finds You: An Evening at My Old College Read More »
Have you ever wondered how the universe quietly conspires to fulfill your deepest desires? Sometimes, it feels like the things we once wished for—whether big or small—find their way into our lives, often in ways we never expected. My own journey is a testament to this, and I’d love to share a glimpse of …
Back to School – Well, Almost! They say school days are the best days of our lives — and now I know exactly why. Back then, some of us were in a hurry to grow up. First, we wanted to escape school and head to college, then couldn’t wait to get a job, and now? …
Have you ever felt happy just because someone else was smiling? Or felt sad or stressed after talking to someone upset? That’s not a coincidence. It’s something called emotional contagion — and yes, emotions are contagious. A baby starts crying after hearing another baby cry. One person’s stress at work can affect the whole team. …
“Children learn more from what you are than what you teach.” – W.E.B. Du Bois Children are like sponges—soaking in not just the words they hear, but the emotions and behaviors that surround them. From their earliest years, they learn how to speak, react, and relate to the world by observing the people around …